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Brood “On”

She’s brooding. This duck has found a safe corner in our courtyard. Nestled in the dark bark, using the down  from her abdomen, she has created a nest and then laid her eggs.  And now, she broods!  For the next 28 days she broods― leaving the nest for no more than two or three hours a day to get food and water, which means she sits on her eggs for 20 to 23 hours a day!

Each day when we check her progress, we are amazed how immoveable she is. Patiently providing the warmth the eggs need during this almost month long incubation.  She broods, but her brooding is different than the way we brood.  

Our brooding is defined in Webster’s as “pondering for a long time with worry or anxiety.” We brood about the challenges we face in life: unrealized dreams, unfulfilled promises, broken relationships, financial woes,  health issues. We ponder on them with worry and anxiety, instead of brooding on them with prayer.

Jesus even encourages us to:   

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. (Matt. 7:7-8)

Ask, seek, knock!  Instead of “brooding about” when God will answer a prayer, we need to “brood on” that request, persistently ”warming”  that petition with faith-filled, persistent prayer!

Even when days turn into months, even years, don’t forsake that place of prayer. Don’t give up!  “Brood on” that need, keep it “warm” with continual prayer and trust in God until He “hatches” the answer in His perfect timing.

 

 

A Great Friday

In just a few days we celebrate “Good Friday”―a good day, no, a great day for us, for mankind―but not so good for Jesus.

On the night before his crucifixion, Jesus spent his last few hours with his disciples preparing them for what would take place on that Friday. After he established what we know as the Lord’s Supper, he washed his disciples’ feet, and then Jesus took them to the Garden of Gethsemane to pray.

It is in the Garden where Jesus revealed the depth of his distress as the reality of Friday drew near. Filled with anguish and despair, he turned to Peter, James, and John and said, “My soul is crushed with horror and sadness to the point of death, stay here, stay awake with me.”         (Matt. 26:37 TLB) In the Message translation, it states that Jesus “plunged into an agonizing sorrow.” And then he prayed this intense prayer―not once but three times:

“Abba, Father, everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me.” (Mark 14:36 NIV)

Jesus was asking the Father if there could be another way to make a “way” of salvation for mankind―a way he could forego the cross. Jesus was facing the most difficult decision of his human life: would he choose the Father’s will or his will? His agony over the choice was so great that Jesus “sweat drops of blood.” Why the agony? Why the horror? Why the deep distress?

There is no dispute that crucifixion is a horrific and tortuous way to die, but it was not a unique execution in the first century. I propose that the agony, horror, and distress Jesus experience stemmed not from the dread of the physical pain he would experience, but from the truth that on that cross Jesus would become sin for us. The apostle Paul explains what took place on the cross:

“For God took the sinless Christ and poured into him our sins. Then, in exchange, he poured God’s goodness into us.”                                (2 Corinthians 5:21 TLB)

Imagine what it must have been like for Jesus who had never experienced sin―never experienced the guilt, the shame, the condemnation of sin―to experience it in full. But most of all, Jesus knew in the moment he became our sin, for the first time in his existence, he would experience the agony, the horror, the deep distress of being separated from God the Father.

This is why as the three o’clock hour drew near, the crucified Christ cried out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? (Matt. 15:34)

This is why Jesus sweat drops of blood. This is why for Jesus that Friday was not a good day, but a necessary day.  For Jesus knew that by embracing this horrific Friday, a glorious Sunday would be possible, and that Sunday would be his “good’ day, and yet another great day for us!

What’s The Plan?

 

He came bursting through the door barely able to get his words out.  All she could decipher at first were the words, “We’re leaving!”  Running from room to room, he scanned each one quickly determining what would be taken and what would be left behind.  She could barely keep up to him and had an even harder time comprehending what he was telling her.  She had never seen such joy and excitement on her husband’s face.  Finally her husband, Abraham, turned to her and said, “Sarah, I met God today – the living God.  He promised great blessings, unbelievable blessings.  And one of the most incredible blessings is that from us―from you and me― will come a great nation.  Do you know what that means?  It means God is promising that we will have a son.  A son!

This was the one thing in life that Sarah longed for.  In her culture, a woman’s worth was based on the ability to bear a son, an heir for her husband, and Sarah had long lived with the stigma of barrenness.  No matter what joys of life she experienced, they were always dampened by her desire for a child, a son. I think Sarah must have started pulling clothes out of drawers, emptying every closet.  Most likely she called the realtor and scheduled a yard sale.  Oh, how she wanted a child!

Yet in the midst of the excitement, at some point, she must have asked Abraham this question, “I’m willing to leave, but where are we going?  What’s the plan?”

His response: “God wants us to go to the land that he will show us.”

“So what did he show you?

“He didn’t show me.  He just said he would show me.”

Now imagine your reaction to that plan!  You’re leaving but you don’t know exactly where you’re going!

God knew where he was going to lead Abraham and Sarah.  It wasn’t as if God was making up the plan as they went along. He could have easily said to Abraham, “Leave your homeland and go to the land of Canaan.”  So why didn’t God give them the details up front.  Why not tell them exactly where they were going?  Why didn’t he put a detailed plan in their hand?

Because from the very beginning of their relationship with God, he was teaching them to rely on him for direction, to allow God to direct their steps.  He was teaching them that they didn’t need to have all the details upfront. What they needed was to engage in their relationship with God, continually drawing upon him for guidance, being obedient in the present as God led them to their future.

And the same is true for us today. God has a divine plan for each of us, yet he doesn’t provide us with all of the details of that plan in advance. Like with Abraham and Sarah, God wants us to engage in our relationship with him today― to learn to know his voice and be instructed by his wisdom. And, as we learn to be obedient in the present he, too, will lead us to an amazing future.

Be Strong, Be Courageous!

Sport fans.

No matter the sport, no matter the team, their boisterous  and encouraging cheers can provide their players that extra boost they need to score a goal, make a basket, kick a winning field goal.

Encouragement―not just something players need on a football field.  Encouragement is something we all need. And God, who is the greatest encourager, wants us to be encouragers as well.

Consider for a moment how God encouraged a man named Joshua. Moses  has died, and Joshua has been installed as the Israelites’ next leader. To follow a prophet-leader like Moses had to be incredibly daunting. The man extended his rod and the Red Sea parted. He met God on Mt. Sinai and received the Ten Commandments on two  tablets of stone. God had revealed himself to Moses like no one else.  But Joshua also knew the trials of leadership Moses had faced―the many times the Israelites had complained and rebelled.  And now Joshua had to fill his shoes. So what did God do?

He met Joshua and said, “Be strong and courageous!”  Not once, but three times, God spoke these encouraging words into Joshua’s heart.  Then God inspired the leaders of Israel to encourage Joshua as well. When Joshua addressed the Israelites for the first time as their prophet-leader, he instructed the leaders of each tribe to prepare the people to cross the Jordan River to the Promised Land. Their response?  “We will do what you command us.”  Then they declared the same encouraging words to Joshua that God had spoken: “(Joshua). .  . be strong and courageous.” (Joshua 1:16,18)

They knew the leadership responsibility given to Joshua was not an easy one, and those confirming words encouragement  gave Joshua the confidence to boldly step into the “calling” God had purposed for him. These leaders were his encouragers!

I want to be like those leaders. I want to be an encourager to those who are stepping out and into new areas of ministry, service, or responsibility. Instead of being ready  to point out their missteps or mistakes on the inevitable learning curve, I want to be the one saying, “Be strong, be courageous. You can do what God has called you to do!” Sometimes it’s just a few simple words of encouragement or a small act of support that is needed to remind them that indeed God is with them!

How much stronger the church would be if we were ready with these encouraging words: “Be strong, be courageous.” 

An Unexpected Ski Lesson

 

Last weekend Joe and I had the opportunity to ski with my daughter and her husband at Sugar Loaf Ski Resort in Maine. After a day of skiing the “green” (easy) and “blue” (intermediate) slopes, my daughter and I talked about our admiration for those who can handle with ease the “black diamond” and “double black diamond” runs. And we weren’t alone in our admiration.  She shared how a good friend of hers not only admired these skiers but wanted to become one as well―to ski “black diamonds” like a pro―so he decided to take a lesson and learn from a pro.

When he told the ski instructor about his “black diamond” goal, her response startled him.  Instead of practicing on the “black diamonds,” she took him to the “green” runs where they worked on perfecting the basic skills he had already learned. Her advice: practice on the easy slopes until the movements, the “feel,” become muscle memory―automatic!  It would be on “green” runs where he would master the skiing skills needed to navigate with confidence the most difficult slopes.

Certainly this is a lesson we can apply to living a life defined by our faith in Jesus―where the Christ-like qualities of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control are to be evident even on the most “difficult slopes” of life.

But how do we do that? The best place to start is during the daily, small moments of life. For instance, we can make the conscious choice to:

  • Be patient, even we are stuck behind a car traveling 10 mph below the speed limit.
  • Respond with a kind word, even when the salesperson has been rude.
  • Hold back an angry response, even when your child has not.
  • Follow through on a commitment, even when it becomes inconvenient.

If the characteristics of Christ (love, joy, peace, patience, etc.) are to be characteristic of us, we must learn to master them on the “easy slopes” of life.  We must put them into “into practice” on a daily basis, over and over again, so they become intuitive, enabling us to demonstrate with grace these same Christ-like qualities when life gets difficult, when we have no choice but to traverse the “black diamond,” even the “double black diamond” slopes of life.

An unexpected lesson learned from a day of skiing in Maine!

 

 

 

Journey With Jesus

 

Sometimes I like to take a familiar verse of Scripture and look at it through the lens of different translations, which can make a truth in God’s Word come alive with fresh meaning.  Such was the case this morning, as I was reading Colossians 2:6, a scripture I have not only read more times than I can remember, but also one I often used in teaching a Bible class called “Understanding God.”  It is a verse that encourages us to “live our lives in Jesus,” (NIV) to continue to “follow him.”(NLT) But today when I read this verse in the “Voice” translation, it provided me with a fresh perspective on the Father’s  directive to follow Jesus.

“Now that you have welcomed the Anointed One, Jesus the Lord, into your lives, continue to journey with Him and allow Him to shape your lives.” (The emphasis is mine.)

So often when it comes to the amazing gift of salvation we receive when we welcome Jesus into our lives, our primary focus is on our eternal destination―the gift of eternal life in the presence of our Lord.  But in Colossians we are reminded that our Savior doesn’t want us to wait for eternity to arrive in order to be with him; he wants us to “journey with him” today―to be cognizant of his desire to be present in our daily lives and be “shaped” by his perfecting presence as we hurdle the challenges of the day, as we seek answers to problems that seem insurmountable, as we celebrate the joys of this life.

Through the highs and lows of life he wants to be with us in the journey―no, actually he wants us to journey with him, letting him take the lead! And as we do, he will shape our lives for the better. So as we celebrate his birth this Christmas season, let us rejoice that he journeyed into humanity over 2,000 years ago, so we can journey with him in the present!

Grit!

Grit!  It’s a word that almost sounds like what it means.

Determination.  Perseverance.

Enduring short term pain to achieve long-term gain.

In April 2013, Dr. Angela Duckworth gave a TED Talk on “grit.” In conducting her research to identify which character traits are the best predictors of whether a person will be successful academically or professionally, she discovered that a high IQ was not necessarily the leading indicator.  Whether her test subjects were successful teachers, doctors, Marines, or business people, the common factor wasn’t a high IQ, but instead what she termed “grit.”  These test subjects demonstrated determination and perseverance; they were willing to endure short term pain to achieve long-term gain; they stayed the course even when they faced great challenges or adversity.

As I listened to this TED Talk, I couldn’t help but reflect on how Jesus demonstrated great “grit.” To endure the Cross―to become our sin and pay the penalty of death that we owe because of sin―that took grit. We see great perseverance and determination in the Garden of Gethsemane, when he chose the Father’s will rather than his will. We see his willingness to endure the short term pain of the Cross to achieve the long-term, eternal gain of making a way of salvation for all of mankind. But how did he do it? Where did that “grittiness” come from?

He had the grit to endure the present pain of the Cross, because he kept his focus on the future joy of being reunited with God the Father in a place of honor.

Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne. (Heb. 12:2b NLT)

He had the grit to stay the course, because he knew his death would secure for eternity the salvation of all who would believe in him as their Savior.  Jesus had “grit,” and it is a trait we are to possess as well. The Apostle Paul put it this way:

And let us run with perseverance (or let’s say “grit”) the race marked out for us. (Heb. 12:1 NIV)

How do we this?

Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we are in. Study how he did it.(Heb. 12:2 MSG)

Like Jesus, we must keep our focus on our eternal destination instead of our present location! The Apostle Paul would encourage us to keep our “eyes on the prize”―spending eternity in the presence of our Lord. For no matter the difficulties we may face in in the present, they are short-term in comparison to eternity.  Certainly when you are in a storm, it’s hard to be gritty. But Jesus has given us a gift, His Holy Spirit, to encourage and empower us so we can persevere, so we can be “gritty,” never losing sight of our future gain―eternity with our Savior.

Soar!

As much as I am fascinated by the way a hummingbird is able to hover mid-air with wings flapping at a rate that almost blurs your vision, it is the soaring eagle that captures my awe.  There is no frantic flapping of its wings:  it’s a graceful gliding through the air that can best be expressed by the word “soar.”  Instead of expanding their energy flapping their wings, eagles know how to catch and ride the wind thermals.  Instead of hunkering down and avoiding a storm, eagles use the prevailing winds to propel them forward and soar over the storm. Perhaps this is why we read in Isaiah 43:31,

“But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength.  They will soar high on wings like eagles.”

The storms of life provide us with the opportunity to make a choice:  to let the stormy winds beat us down or to trust in the Lord who gives us the strength to soar above the storm.  Instead of flapping furiously and frantically on our own, God gives us the wisdom and strength to use the turbulent winds of a storm to fly high, to use the storm to propel us forward.

Our family is in the midst of a storm as one of those we dearly love is facing brain surgery.  As a family, we have made the choice to trust Jesus.  We trust Him as He teaches us how to use the turbulent winds of this storm to soar, to rise above the storm where there is a calm.  As much as I love watching the frantic flapping of a hummingbird, I’m glad the Lord has instructed us to be like the eagle who soars!

Persistence in Prayer?

Jesus’ ministry was gaining momentum.  Word of his powerful teaching and miraculous healings stirred the hearts of the people.  They followed him from Galilee, the Decapolis, from Jerusalem, Judea and the Jordan region.  As a great crowd gathered, Jesus climbed up the side of the mountain, sat down and began to teach them.  They listened in amazement as he taught what we now call the Beatitudes―the attitudes that bring blessing into our lives.  He taught about loving our enemies, giving to the needy, and how we should store up treasures in heaven.  But toward the end of that sermon, Jesus provides us with a valuable instruction concerning prayer:

Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. (Matt. 7:7-8 NIV)

Jesus gives us permission, even encouragement to be persistent when we pray―to keep asking, keep seeking, keep knocking. But why does the Father value persistence in our praying?  I certainly don’t have all the answers. But this relationship between asking and persistence does remind me of one of the favorite things my grandchildren love to do as Christmas approaches. With great anticipation they await the arrival of toy flyers in the mail. As they peruse each one, they circle at least two or three things on every page, certain that they want everything that has been circled. And then they begin asking. But what I notice as Christmas draws closer, their persistent requests are narrowed down to just a few key toys, revealing to their parents what they truly “need” to receive.

The same seems to be true with my asking. Persistence tends to filter out my needs from my wants, my requests that are critical from those that are not. Perhaps this aspect of persistence in prayer is more for our benefit than for His? Your thoughts?

Breathe Out!

Sometimes bad habits are hard to break.  And when it comes to exercise, I have one.  Well, at least one.  And this is the one my fitness trainer, Christine, is currently trying to correct:  my breathing!  Whenever she asks me to do a particular exercise―whether it’s hammer curls, goblet squats, a chest press―when I get to the point where my strength is being tested, where I have to exert a lot of energy to complete that next “rep,” I hold my breath.  Now that would not seem to be such a bad thing, except it can cause you to faint.  Not such a good thing!

What I am learning is when I need to lift a challenging weight, instead of holding my breath as I exert effort, I need to exhale.  Exhaling engages my “core” muscles which give me more power―power to lift the weight I didn’t think I had the strength to lift, to complete those last “reps” of an exercise I thought I could never finish.  There is power that comes from my core when I breathe out!

This got me to thinking how this breathing lesson can be applied spiritually.  When things become challenging in your life, when the circumstances you face become overwhelming, don’t hold in your faith.  When you are treated unfairly or facing financial challenges, don’t hold your “breath.”  Instead draw strength from your faith core.  Draw strength from the empowering Holy Spirit, the Holy Breath of God that dwells in you―and breathe out!

Breathe out an act of kindness.

Breathe out an act of compassion.

Breathe out an act of generosity.

Breathe out an act of forgiveness.

And as you breathe out with these acts of faith from your spiritual core, watch how you are empowered.

Empowered to overcome that adversity.

Empowered to face that difficult challenge.

Empowered to shed those burdens that seek to break you.

Breathe out!  Breathe out with acts of faith and watch how your spiritual muscles are strengthened.